DOMINANCE

Because no two people are the same, no two fetish sessions will ever be the same. However, below are a few examples of things we might do together. Ultimately though, I like to take an idea, and see where the chemistry leads us, where the thrills feel most live and our desires merge.

Fetish and BDSM Experiences

Impact play and traditional English corporal punishment

There’s something about the moment of anticipation, just before the hand makes contact with the skin, which always feels particularly charged for me. I like to linger for just an extra second, before bringing my hand down in a stinging rush, and watching the red blossom out.

These sessions might involve hand spanking, caning, paddling, strapping, tawse, over-the-knee spanking, whipping, flogging – amongst a whole host of other possibilities. The beauty of impact play is that it can be so easily worked into a session, heightening the D/s relationship; as well as being something many enjoy simply for the pure rush of sensation it brings.

Facesitting and body worship

As a Domme in possession of more curves than most, it may not surprise you to hear that this is one of my favourite things to do. Whether it’s a session focused on facesitting, queening or bottom worship, I truly can never get enough of you devoting yourself to my endless curves. In fact, I’ve even written a blog about just how much I adore body worship.

Bondage and restraint

The ‘B’ in BDSM, bondage is an integral part of many fetish sessions. The feeling of restraint is a powerful one, and a simple piece of rope can, in the right hands, become a tool of intense power-play. Whilst intricate shibari isn’t something I have a deep knowledge of, I can easily overpower you and have you squirming beneath my restraints.

Imagine yourself spead-eagled on my bed, your hands and wrists secured by cuffs or tape – you’re vulnerable, totally exposed and at my mercy. Some call it tie-and-tease, but that never really feels like it does justice to the feelings of powerlessness you’ll experience. Perhaps I’ll slide a blindfold over your eyes, or a gag in your mouth – disorientated, you’ll have no choice but to do exactly what I say. And you’ll love every second of it.

Foot and shoe fetish

Foot worship and feet fetish has a powerful place in our cultural imagination. There’s nothing which invokes such an image of power exchange as a man kneeling in front of a dominant woman, pleading to be allowed just one touch of her perfectly shaped foot. You can start by massaging my exquisitely manicured foot, kissing the soles of my feet in pleasure, before slowly working your way up my shapely legs.

Or is it shoe and boot worship which gets your heart racing? There’s nothing quite like taking my pets shopping, having them spoil me with sky high heels in patent red and thigh high leather boots, just knowing that the minute we get home they’ll be on their knees, devoting themselves to pleasing me. You know I’m worth it. I adore a man with a foot fetish – they know just what to do to make me delirious with pleasure and always go the extra mile to make me happy.

Roleplay and fantasy

The world of fantasy role-play allows us to escape reality for a few hours. My experience with dominant scenarios and role-play is unparalleled, ranging from school and office fantasies, to medical fetish and consensual non-consent scenes. Have you ever dreamt of being part of a kidnap and hostage fantasy, overpowered by a powerful mystery woman? Or perhaps you’d like to head back to your school-days, playing out fantasies of control between teacher and sixth former, student and headmistress? I can be your bitchy boss, your secretary on a power trip, or a manipulative co-worker, determined to ruin your career prospects to get my own way.

Sensation play

Sensation and sensory play runs the gamut from a simple soft blindfold, temporarily taking away your sight; to a sharp set of well-manicured nails digging into your back and twisting your nipples; to intense cock and ball torture.

A particular favourite game of mine is orgasm control and edging. There’s nothing quite like teasing someone slowly, gently, before increasing the intensity of my touch, getting faster and faster until they’re begging for release. Maybe I’ll be nice and let you come, maybe I’ll just deliver a perfectly timed ruined orgasm. I suppose it depends just how good you’ve been.

Sensual domination

In the hands of a skilled dominatrix, a session focused around sensual domination can push all the pleasure and pain buttons. I'll take you to the edge, gently, over and over. No need to crack a whip or bark orders to make you submit to me.

And many, many more…

These are just a few suggestions for the power dynamics we could dive into together, and there is so much more to explore. From humiliation and degradation; cross-dressing and uniforms; forced bi and cuckholding; pegging, strap-on and anal play; to more longer term dynamics including chastity and key-holding, financial domination and total power exchange. The world of fetish and BDSM is ours to discover and explore however we choose, and I want to know exactly what it is which excites you, what makes you feel truly your most authentic self. Because that’s what we all want really, isn’t it?