KINK & BDSM
I wish I could say that my first introduction to the world of kink, fetish and BDSM was something effortlessly cool and chic - like reading A Story of O, or attending some glamourous mansion party where masked beauties draped themselves over me.
Unfortunately, it was a lot of more base and undignified - watching ripped hardcore BDSM porn under my duvet at university with the door firmly locked and my headphones on. I was terrified my housemates might find out I was a terrible pervert, and kick me out of our damp shared house.
Thankfully, I’ve now become friends with other terrible perverts, and we can watch much better quality porn together - they’ll only kick me out if I don’t bring enough lube to the orgy.
My love of weird, perverse and polymorphous sex has endured though, and my tastes have become filthier and filthier - luckily for you! For me, BDSM isn’t just something I do in sessions - I’m a regular on the London kink scene and a true lifestyle switch, albeit with dominant leanings. I’m picky about who I play with, but for those who I choose to build a dynamic with, the sky is truly the limit.
dominance.
I know what you want. A space to explore your fantasies and desires, away from shame or judgment. A space to sink deeper into the magic of connection, of power play. A space to fully relinquish control. I can give you that, and much more – all you have to do is take the first step.
The magic of BDSM is based in the multiple expressions of human sexuality and desire. We are unique creatures, all driven by slightly different manifestations of the same desire to control and be controlled. I’ve been involved in the BDSM community for over ten years now, and as an experienced player, I truly love the chance to share my passions and desire with new lovers. For me, kink is something which allows us to create new forms of connection, and engage on a level which defies traditional norms. It’s a chance to be be erotic shapeshifters.
As a Mistress, I adore being worshipped and my impossibly abundant curves cry out for devotion. Do you dream of being overpowered by a beautiful BBW mistress who can use her body and mind to make you fall to your knees and beg? Or perhaps you prefer to wrestle for control – but be warned, I always win.
I’m a playful Domme, but don’t let my charming demeanour fool you. I have a real sadistic streak and I like nothing more than working my way into your mind, insidiously, before you’ve realised what’s happening. I like to deal out punishment with a smile, effortlessly making you beg me for more. I won’t shout demands, preferring to whisper in your ear, watching slowly as you lose control.
Maybe you’re more of a aural enthusiast? If you’d like to hear me speak about one of my favourite kinks - in collaboration with one of my favourite people - then you might enjoy this podcast on the magic of body worship.
submission.
Whilst my tastes definitely skew more towards dominance, I don’t like to rule anything out - some people just really bring out a different side of me. A little more obedient, and a lot more wanton - but never, ever meek or mild.
Sexual and erotic submission is a wide ranging and beautiful thing, with a myriad of expressions. It can be soft – a gentle touch to my hair, showing me you care; it can be firm – a strong hand wrapped around my throat, a paddle brought down sharply on my generous bottom; or it can be intense – a psychological power play, making me submit to you without even realising what’s going on. It can be all this and much, much more – defined by the chemistry between us as much as our own desires.
As an experienced submissive, I pride myself on being able to read this chemistry, giving you exactly what you want, need – and deserve. However, I don’t submit as much as I used to, and those seeking to build this kind of connection will need to prove they’ve truly earned my submission - because it’s a precious gift.
When I feel that connection with someone though, the fireworks are pretty unbelievable. I might make you work a bit harder, but trust me - it’s worth it.